…ladies, let’s say you have been with your man for a couple of years now. With the exception of a couple of rough patches, it’s been a phenomenal relationship and you couldn’t be more in love if you tried.
He has been through a rough few months, with a lot of outside issues affecting him in a number of ways…bringing him down and affecting his emotions in such a way that he hasn’t really been himself.
Let’s say that over the past couple of weeks, circumstances have prevented the two of you from connecting on a number of levels. Children… neighbours… sleep deprivation… all reasons for an “off” time between the two of you. You just haven’t really felt close lately, which is unusual for you two.
And let’s say that there has been more than one time where your man has had issues in the bedroom. Specifically, being unable to finish what he starts. He tells you that there are multiple reasons for the issue…it’s because there’s just so much on his mind and that he ends up over-thinking things and that it’s not you in any way.
How would you feel? Would you take this personally? Would you start to wonder what’s going on?
So more importantly, if you were concerned about how close the two of you had been (or had NOT been) over the past few weeks…what could your man do to help the situation?
Y’know, hypothetically speaking…