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Pride and Inspiration

I remember, vividly, when Sunshine ran a half marathon last year. I remember it because I let her down on a number of levels, the biggest being that I wasn’t there at the end of the race. There were reasons, sure…but regardless of the reasons, I wasn’t there when she needed me.

It’s been a year of me wanting to make up for that mistake.

Sunshine pre-race...bring it on!!Yesterday, Sunshine ran a FULL MARATHON on Prince Edward Island. I can’t even begin to tell you just how impressed I am at the mere thought of running a marathon, much less actually completing one.

We started the day in the near-freezing temperatures on the northern beaches of PEI. It may be beautiful during the summer, but it’s just blistering in the fall. People were dressed in everything from tank tops and short shorts to toques and ear muffs. In addition to that were the crazy people like me…driving all over the island from marker to marker to stand in the cold and yell out our support for the people we love.

The start of the PEI Marathon

If you look really close at the middle, the one with the turquoise jacket and the black hat is Sunshine.

And if that in itself wasn’t enough, she obliterated the time that she ran five years ago in her first marathon…by over an hour! She finished over 42 km (over 24 miles) in under five hours. How awesome is she??

The official time was one second less than this - 4:42!!

The official time was one second less than this – 4:42!!

Sunshine kickin' ass at the 25km mark of the PEI MarathonFor those of you who read both of our blogs, you know that she almost didn’t even run it. Thanks to some positive words from some great people, she changed her mind and ran her ass off yesterday.

To say that I’m impressed would be an understatement. I’m inspired by her achievement. I’m in awe at her ability. Because she overcame so much in terms of mental blocks in order to run this AND finish it, I’m more proud of her than my words can really say.

I believe in her…and hopefully, after yesterday, she can now believe in herself.

Sunshine post-race...finished strong!! PEI Marathon


I Believe In You

I found out yesterday that Sunshine had decided to NOT run her marathon in a couple of weeks. This is the marathon that she’s been training for since she did the half-marathon last year.

It turns out that I inadvertently contributed to her decision. At one point a few weeks ago she came back from a big run and told me how many kilometers she ran. I actually sounded disappointed to her in the results. I wish I hadn’t sounded that way because I can’t even run ONE kilometer without having to stop three or four times and breaking out a sweat. She ran over 30km that day and I couldn’t have been more proud of her.

I also tried giving her a pep talk the other night that ended up falling flat. My point was to try to get her to enjoy the training and get the most out of every moment so that she enjoys the marathon itself, because if she’s not having fun then why even bother. Apparently the words didn’t quite come out the way I wanted them to and I ended up sounding like I was talking her OUT of the marathon.

Sigh.

We talked last night and I tried to relay my true feelings to her. We discussed the deeply-rooted concerns and fears that she has about running the marathon again (she did her first a few years ago before we met). We discussed just how much she inspires me…how doing what she does isn’t something just anybody can do.

I don’t know if she woke up changing her mind about the marathon or not, but she took off at 5am this morning for a long run.

I believe in you, Sunshine. Whether you decide to run this or not run it, I’m behind you 100%. Do whatever YOU want to do…just know that I look up to you and am inspired by what you have been able to accomplish on so many levels. I don’t think…I KNOW that you can kick ass in a marathon if it’s something you really want to do. And if you don’t…screw it. It’s not the end of the world…it’s just whatever you want to do.

I love you. I believe in you.

You rock.

xox


My Inspiration

I was given the most amazing gift from Sunshine on Friday. The best part? It didn’t cost anything to make. It was simply something amazing that was created to help inspire me…especially on those mornings when I just don’t want to go outside.

Y’know what? This was one of the most thoughtful things anybody has ever done for me.

THIS is the reason I’m getting married again. THIS is the reason I’m moving to her city.

I am one lucky guy.


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