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The Maine Blogger Summit Begins!

Just over a month ago, Sunshine told me that she had helped to arrange a mini-vacation of sorts with two fellow bloggers, T and Jobo. It immediately became a “blogger summit” and something that we were all looking forward to.

Well…today Sunshine comes down to visit me, knocking 2.5 hours off of our 10-hour drive tomorrow (not including stops, of course) as we make our way to Maine. We’re driving down from New Brunswick, while T is flying up from Texas with her man, Gentleman Jack. Jobo and her man, M, are going to be hosting this shindig and don’t have much to travel at all.

Preparations have been made and we’re good for accommodations. Jobo sent out an email “menu” to make sure that we were set for food, which ended turning into an 80+ email trail of fun and good times, a preview of what we can expect this weekend. In addition, Jobo even went out on an adult-beverage shopping trip to help move the weekend plans along…

I’m not much of a drinker, but I get the feeling I might have more than I plan on having when all is said and done.

There are only two things that can be considered even remotely negative right now:

1. I’m sick. I woke up yesterday morning with a major head-cold. It sucks, because I’m really looking forward to this weekend and the last thing I wanted to have to deal with was a runny nose. But I’m 100% determined to fight this thing and kick its ass as quickly as possible. Of course, my nose is already looking like Rudolph’s and we haven’t even left yet. Bah.

2. The weather. This is something that, obviously, nobody can control. Currently, the weather is looking…well…”iffy” at best.

Obviously, this isn’t the hot lay-on-the-beach weather that was hoped for by everybody when the original plan was set-up, but it’s certainly not the worst thing that could be happening.

My thought is that if it rains, we’ll either all hang out inside drinking and eating all weekend (not necessarily a terrible idea) or we’ll drive to Boston for some sight-seeing and touristy stuff (a pretty decent alternative, if you ask me).

At the end of the day, all that really matters to me isn’t whether or not we get to sit under the sun by a lake. All that REALLY matters is that good people are getting together to have a good time, regardless of the weather.

I’m sure there will be updates on this “epic adventure” from time to time on Twitter, as well:

@CanadianBaldGuy

@Momma_Sunshine

@Jobo_Determined

@TsQuest

Maybe we’ll even use a hashtag: #MaineBloggerSummit

I’m sure there will be a TON of photos taken over the weekend, but not all of them will be made public. I mean, SOME of what happens at the Maine Blogger Summit will have to stay at the Maine Blogger Summit…right?


The Blogger Summit…Maine Style

Awhile back, I created a Blogger Bingo card to kind of show which bloggers I’d like to meet in real life (the card has changed since I originally posted it, but it’s interesting to look back and see what I said at the time). It was an idea originally shown to me by Depot Dad (RIP, my friend) and it’s one that I still think is a fun meme to follow…especially where there are definitely bloggers out there that I would love to meet in real life.

Well…cross two more bloggers off the list, kids!!

I’m not sure exactly how it all came about, but in June both Sunshine and myself will be driving 10+ hours to Maine to meet Jobo from Determined. To Be… and her man, M. Not to be outdone, T from Life as a Classroom will be flying up from Texas with Gentleman Jack!

Yes…a blogger summit in Maine to put all others to shame!

I think I started reading Jobo’s blog after she and Sunshine became friends. Don’t ask me how long I’ve been reading because I couldn’t tell you, but it’s been about a year or so. She’s a great spirit and is graciously hosting this summit. I’m looking forward to testing some of her giant wine collection (even though I’m not a wine drinker, I may see how things go…NO promises!).

Now T is someone I’ve been “blog friends” with for a few years now. I think I discovered her blog from SingleMomSeeking, if I recall correctly. About three years ago, I split with Sunshine briefly (for about two months before realizing what I had right in front of me). T was there as a friend and an ear to my problems during that time. She really helped me get through a rough patch and help me see things a lot clearer. I’m very much looking forward to meeting her and her man, who shares a lot of similarity with me in a lot of ways (except physically, cause dude is JACKED). Both Sunshine and I are extremely happy to know that they are flying up to hang with us crazy Canucks and some Maine folk for a couple of days.

So the countdown is on and the excitement is building (though I need to come up with a catchy title for this meeting). I better start making that 80′s party mix!


10 Things I Want To Do Before 2012

1. Go to a drive-in movie. Sunshine and I have been wanting to go to a drive-in movie for awhile now, but a combination of bad timing and bad movies always seem to get in the way. We’re going to make it happen this year, though. There are simply too few drive-in theatres around and too much fun to be had.  For anybody who hasn’t been to a drive-in movie…you’re totally missing out.

2. Spend some time on Prince Edward Island. Sunshine is tentatively scheduled to run a half-marathon in the fall on PEI.  What I would love to do is spend a weekend there…enjoying the sights and sounds of the beautiful island. I haven’t been there in a few years, when my parents took my daughter and I to PEI for a week’s vacation.  There are a ton of pics from that trip, but I think they’re all on my previous blog. If anybody’s even slightly interested, I can create a post to show them off.

3. Reach my weight-loss goal of 200lbs. I’m below 230lbs for the first time in I don’t know HOW long, and I feel like I’ve gone over a small hurdle in my life.  I’m fighting a daily battle against junk food, and all I want to do is get to a point where I can look in the mirror and not feel repulsed.  I know I can do it and I feel like I can win this particular battle. Can I reach 200lbs?  I honestly don’t know…but I’m on my way to finding out.

4. Finish reading The Lost Symbol. LOL…I’ve had this book for almost two years now.  Sunshine gave it to me as a gift for Christmas (because I asked for it) and I’m still not even half-way through it.  And what’s worse is that I actually LIKE the book. Not sure why I haven’t just taken the time to sit down and read the rest of it…I guess I’ve never been a “sit down and read” kind of guy.  But I want to do it…so I’m going to do it.  No more excuses.

5. Finish decorating my house. I moved into this house back in December and to be completely honest, I’m not loving it.  I haven’t had the inclination or the time (or the money) to change the place to make it look like I want it to look.  But I want to…I’m going to be here for awhile so I need to accept it and make it my own. Would I like a “woman’s touch”?  Probably…but I need to grow up and decorate it in a way that says “ME”.

6. Buy a new camera. I’m not a greedy guy.  I’m not looking for a $1,000 professional camera here.  I just need to save up a couple hundred (maybe a little less) and find a solid digital camera on eBay.  My dad recently bought one for Sunshine because I dropped hers on a cobblestone street in San Juan, Puerto Rico back in March.  She’s been using my crappy little Kodak camera in the meantime. The camera dad bought for her is pretty nice, I gotta say…and I really want to try to save up enough money to buy one myself.

7. Get a family portrait with ALL of our kids in one spot. With Rugrat tentatively sheduled to come visit the second week of August, that means both Sunshine and I will have that entire week off to spend together with all of our kids. It will definitely be hectic, but I think it’ll also be a blast.  BUt something I definitely want is to have a picture with all of us together…and one done professionally. Last summer my ex-wife took a picture of all of us together and it wasn’t quite the masterpiece I wanted, so hopefully we can get ‘er done this summer.

8. Become a better blogger. I’ve lost a bit of inspiration over the past few months since mom passed away, but I know that I love to write and want to continue writing.  I also know that I’m pretty decent at what I do and if I really apply myself I can become the blogger I’ve always wanted to become.  In addition, I keep putting off my “Guilty Pleasures” blog…something that I started but haven’t continued.  I want to because I think it would be fun.  I just need to stop procrastinating and being lazy and jumping into it head first.  I think I’d really love what I end up creating.

9. Enjoy life…especially the life I live and how I live it. One of the things I’ve been working on recently is trying to love myself. As difficult as that has been, it’s also helped me to remember how much I enjoy living life.  Is my life perfect? Not by any stretch. But it’s a good enough life that I don’t’ want to take it for granted. It’s funny…this past weekend I told Sunshine that sometimes I don’t feel like she “stops to smell the roses” and enjoy what’s around her.  It’s definitely advice that I need to consider for myself.

10. Smile every day. It’s easy. It’s fun. It can make someone else’s day without you even realizing it. There is ALWAYS a reason to smile at least once during the course of every single day. My task…heck, my personal mission…is to never forget that.


Not Myself Lately

Sunshine noticed it first.

She sent me an email yesterday asking if anything was wrong. I hadn’t really been my normal self on the phone lately and I wasn’t blogging nearly as much as I normally did, so she was a little concerned.

I hadn’t really thought about it much until she mentioned it. But then, because I have an innate need to search within myself for answers, I then spent the rest of the day trying to come up with reasons why I wasn’t myself.

Admittedly, I’m not myself lately. I’m just completely unmotivated to do anything once I’m alone. I sit and stare at the computer or the television…completely oblivious to the world around me and unmotivated to do anything that could possibly make me feel better.

It’s weird…I couldn’t put a finger on one particular thing. I thought I’d be able to pin-point something…it’d be easier to fix that way. And while my mom’s death has been weighing on my mind lately (a lot, actually), I don’t think that’s the reason I’m feeling the way I’m feeling.

And even though I didn’t think I was doing too badly, Sunshine has recognized the beginnings of depression setting in with me and that makes her more concerned. Just the possibility that depression could sneak up on me without recognizing the symptoms myself is a bit unsettling.

I don’t know why I’m depressed, if that even is the situation. So at this point, I don’t know what I need to do in order to snap out of whatever it is that I’m in.

The first thing I’m doing, that I should have done YEARS ago, is mailing those divorce papers in to get finalized. It’s been over four years since my ex and I separated and it’s just ridiculous that neither one of us have pushed to get this done. It’s silly. So it’s getting done tomorrow. I don’t want to be married to anybody other than Sunshine…and thoughts of that can’t even enter my brain until we’re both officially divorced.

THEN we’ll see what happens next.

See?  I’ve already got a smile on my face.  Maybe I’ve found the solution to my problems, after all…


Blogger Bingo

Kids…I gotta be honest…I had another post all set to go until I saw the latest post by Mister Mama, Sir. I liked the idea so much that I decided to blatantly steal it and make it my own.

A couple of years ago, the late Jim at Depot Dad wrote a post where he created a single parent blogger bingo card, which he used to keep track of the online bloggers that he wanted to meet and those that he had already met.

I couldn’t have been happier that he thought enough of me to include me in that list, and I wish I could have turned that online friendship into an in-person meeting.

So I’ve gone and created my own “Blog Bingo” card.  It’s certainly in no order at all, certainly not “all encompassing”, and those I’ve met already (umm…the one person other than Sunshine, anyway) has been marked as such.

I highly suggest checking them ALL out!!!

Sunshine on my Shoulder

Random Esquire

Mister Mama, Sir

Life as a Classroom

SingleMommyHood

QT Mama

Outside Looking In

Single Mom Survives

Determined To Be

Single Mom Seeking

Musings of the Lil’ Devil Mama

Stay at Home Maven

When Did I Go From A Kid To Grown Up?

Run Pippi Run

The Seigel Files

Sex & the Single Dad

So…who would be on YOUR list?


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