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Sometimes it’s the small things…

Ankle Biter was REALLY enjoying the play area at McDonald’s today. I was his first time there, I believe. The pure joy on his face was easy to see (and difficult to photograph!!).

There is nothing in this world that gives me more happiness than to see my own kids happy.


I’ve Got A Plan

Mr Burns Evil LaughMwahahahahahahaha……..

Okay, the plan isn’t really evil but with Halloween just around the corner I thought it apropos.

No, the plan is about my son (I don’t think it’s evil, anyway).  And this fantastic plan…in all its glory…is my first contribution to HOT DADS!!

So please, if you’d be so kind, do me a favor…head on over and check it out!

I’VE GOT A PLAN

Hot Dads


What a difference a year can make

  • At this time last year, I was just coming out of my near-nervous-breakdown and trying to get my life back together.
  • At this time last year, I was about the same weight but didn’t know I’d drop 15lbs and gain it all back.
  • At this time last year, finding true love wasn’t really high on my priority list.
  • At this time last year, my daughter still loved Pokemon and dinosaurs and didn’t know who Hannah Montana even was.
  • At this time last year, my son was just turning into the amazing toddler that he is today.
  • At this time last year, my annual work review gave me a C performance…an A for my work but a D for my attitude…hence the efforts to make some serious positive changes in my life.
  • At this time last year, I didn’t believe I could ever really find a soul-mate in my lifetime.
  • At this time last year, I was only 36.

Now?

  • Emotionally, I have never felt this good before in my life.
  • While I want to lose weight for vanity purposes, I know that Sunshine will love me regardless of a few pounds here and there.
  • True love is near the top of my priority list…and it’s an amazing feeling.
  • My daughter is all about Hannah Montana…but at least isn’t into boys (yet!).
  • My son brings me some of the most incredible joy I’ve ever felt.
  • My annual work review today gave me a “high B” that’s just outside of the “A” range. A huge step-up from last year and my supervisor was extremely impressed with my turn-around.
  • I have absolutely found my soul-mate…and I now 100% believe it can happen to anybody.
  • I’m now 37…and even though I’m heavier, greyer, balder, and older than I was a year ago, I think I’m only now entering the best time of my life.

Meeting Mom

meeting-the-parents.jpgI’m “meeting mom” tomorrow.

I don’t know if I’ve really got much more to say than that. I mean, I’m pretty big on family…I’m fairly close to mine and I don’t think I’ve ever had any bad relationships with parents of any previous girlfriends (and only one former girlfriend really had issues with my dad, but that was 12+ years ago). While I don’t think my in-laws have a picture of me lying around their house anywhere, I always got along with them and I think they’re very sweet people.

So for the meeting tomorrow, I’m not really overly concerned. I’m hopeful, obviously, that Sunshine‘s mom will like me and we’ll get off on the right foot. Where Sunshine has met my parents and they like her (although they have doubts about how we’re going to handle the distance going forward), and we have both met each other’s children (except my daughter, who isn’t scheduled to visit until Christmas…ugh), this seems like the final step in making our relationship “the real deal”.

I’m trying to not make it a big issue in my head. Let the record state that I’m really looking forward to meeting her, so it’s not like I’m overly nervous or anything. But for me, meeting a partner’s parent(s) is a really important step.

So I guess we’ll just have to play it out and see what happens. When Sunshine met my parents, it turned into a very cordial meeting. She even came with me to visit mom when she was in the hospital and dad took us both out to supper at a local restaurant. So I’m hoping that meeting her mom (and there’s a good chance of meeting one of her sisters, too) will turn out in a very similar way.

It’s a case where Sunshine and I know how we feel about each other and we 100% believe that we’ll one day overcome the distance obstacle; we’re just hoping that we can convince our “old school” parents of the same thing.

Wish me luck!


Vacation w/ the Ankle Biter: Day Three

Yesterday wasn’t quite the fun-filled day that I was hoping it would be.  The weather was being a major pain in my ass…and I’m not a big fan of pains in my ass (sorry, CMC).

So with the clouds in full effect this morning, Ankle Biter and I enjoyed a morning inside.  We hung out…blew and then chased some bubbles around the house…played catched with a little plastic ball…blew-up balloons and let them fly around the house…then watched Tarzan and danced around to “Trashin’ the camp“:

Ankle Biter bustin' a move!

Ankle Biter bustin' a move!

After lunch and his afternoon nap, the sun came out in full force so we went out to Scoops for some ice cream.

Scoops Ice Cream: Riverview, NB

Scoops Ice Cream: Riverview, NB

Ankle Biter digging into his vanilla ice cream.

Ankle Biter digging into his vanilla ice cream.

"This is great, dad...but what did YOU get?"

"This is great, dad...but what did YOU get?"

MOON MIST, BABY!!!

MOON MIST, BABY!!!

Well, that pretty much summed-up Day Three.

Today?  The weather is looking MUCH better so I’m thinking there are some go-karts in our future.  Can’t wait!!


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