Comments on: 30 Days of Truth – Something You Have To Forgive Yourself For http://iusedtohavehair.com/2012/03/09/30-days-of-truth-something-you-have-to-forgive-yourself-for/ The random ramblings of a thirty-something single father and his take on the world... Tue, 21 May 2013 02:35:44 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: Tazromagna http://iusedtohavehair.com/2012/03/09/30-days-of-truth-something-you-have-to-forgive-yourself-for/#comment-8644 Tue, 20 Mar 2012 04:53:05 +0000 http://iusedtohavehair.com/?p=10260#comment-8644 Reblogged this on Tazromagna's Blog.

]]> By: M http://iusedtohavehair.com/2012/03/09/30-days-of-truth-something-you-have-to-forgive-yourself-for/#comment-8584 Sat, 10 Mar 2012 00:02:23 +0000 http://iusedtohavehair.com/?p=10260#comment-8584 It’s none of my business, but I would take my next holiday trip to
her town and province and stay somewhere nearish by.Even if she says
she isn;t keen for you to,underneath she would be thrilled I have no doubt
for you to travel all that way even when finances are tight to see and do things with her.
That is special one on one time you will never ever regret.
So forgive yourself from past mistakes(trust me, I have made a LOT)
but these mistakes do not have to carry forward, One can make changes and plans that will grow a bond that may not exist now.Parents and children can grow closer ,it just takes the parent to keep trying over and over and never ever giving up.A parent has to not be selfish and make the choices that will make a difference to their child.Even if she says don’t come,I would book that flight and time off and show up.
I can tell you are a great dad with your son,and it seems so obvious you
can be the same with your daughter,I wish a lifetime of getting to know each other for you both,but also taking every precious moment now
as childhood is so very fleeting.
One again,none of my business here , just a blog reader !
Best wishes,

]]> By: Canadian Bald Guy http://iusedtohavehair.com/2012/03/09/30-days-of-truth-something-you-have-to-forgive-yourself-for/#comment-8583 Fri, 09 Mar 2012 22:40:27 +0000 http://iusedtohavehair.com/?p=10260#comment-8583 That’s a pretty good idea. I might just do that.

Thanks for the suggestion.
:-)

]]> By: Canadian Bald Guy http://iusedtohavehair.com/2012/03/09/30-days-of-truth-something-you-have-to-forgive-yourself-for/#comment-8582 Fri, 09 Mar 2012 22:39:49 +0000 http://iusedtohavehair.com/?p=10260#comment-8582 I appreciate the kind words, Jo. I just hope as she grows older and more mature that she’ll realize just how much I love her and how much I’ve always loved her, in spite of my mistakes.

]]> By: free penny press http://iusedtohavehair.com/2012/03/09/30-days-of-truth-something-you-have-to-forgive-yourself-for/#comment-8581 Fri, 09 Mar 2012 16:09:10 +0000 http://iusedtohavehair.com/?p=10260#comment-8581 Might I make a suggestion as to how you can possiby keep the bond growing between you & your daughter.. Why not write her a letter every week and either mail them (not sure of her age) or save them. Or you could have a journal dedicated solely to/for her.. I know a Father who did this and when him & her finally were reunited, her whole world shifted for the better and their bond is golden..
Lynne

]]> By: jobo http://iusedtohavehair.com/2012/03/09/30-days-of-truth-something-you-have-to-forgive-yourself-for/#comment-8579 Fri, 09 Mar 2012 14:06:47 +0000 http://iusedtohavehair.com/?p=10260#comment-8579 One of the first things I noticed about you as I started to read your blog is how dedicated of a father you are, and how your goal is to stay close to your kids, distance-wise, as you can. This decision you made previously had to be a difficult one, and while you may still struggle with coping with it, it also sounds like your relationship with Rugrat is stronger than it used to be…and maybe that will help you cope with forgiveness?

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