And really, that’s not me attempting to brag. Quite frankly, there are a good number of experiences that I wish I could take back. I sometimes joke about how the 90’s were a blur, but the reality of the situation is that I acted in such a way that I wish I could turn back time and change a LOT of things.
But that’s really a different post for a different day.
No, I’m here to wonder if I’m the only one who is experiencing the absolute greatest sex of his life as he enters his late 30’s. And no, I’m not just suckin’ up to Sunshine (no pun intended…heh).
I mean, I’ve heard of people who have said that “with age comes experience” but I always thought that was just a line of bullshit that old people said. But here’s the thing: I’m now one of those “old people” that I used to joke about.
Okay…I’m not OLD, but you get what I mean, right? I turn 38 later this year, so it’s certainly not like I’m in my “prime” anymore.
So why does it feel like I am?
Listen…I could go on and on about Sunshine’s mad skillz in the bedroom. And to be honest, she is definitely the most amazing woman I’ve ever been with…in all areas. But I guess the question that I’m wondering about is whether or not I’m having the absolute BEST SEX of my entire life because I’m perfectly compatible with the woman of my dreams? Or is it simply a case of the both of us having just enough experience that we know exactly what we need to do in order to please the other person?
Sure, I have the “experience factor” working for me…but I wonder sometimes if that really makes that much of a difference. I mean, when I was 25 I thought I had the world by the ass and I was “the man” in the bedroom. Looking back now, though, I realize that I didn’t know diddly squat about the intricacies of the female anatomy and how to truly please a woman. So I guess that’s certainly a big factor as to why sex is so much better now than it was then…and it was GOOD then!
So tell me, kids…is sex better after 35? If that’s the case, then why do older men go after younger women? Why do cougars go after younger men? Are they all just trying to chase after that intangible physical connection that exists between two people truly in love regardless of their age?
What say you? Is your sex life the absolute best it could be? Is your sex after 35 better than it was at 25?